In this Expert Insight Interview, Allyson Chavez discusses the power of making decisions and why it is so difficult for some people. Allyson Chavez is a prosperity and success coach for ambitious God-centered women who want phenomenal success with ease, to bend time and space, achieve their goals without hustle or grind, and reshape their reality and feminine energy.
This Expert Insight Interview discusses:
- How Allyson Chavez got interested in the science of making decisions
- What happens if you put off making decisions
- Deciding whether you want to live in a hostile universe or a friendly one
Allyson Chavez became interested in the science of making decisions because she had difficulty making decisions for a long time. She second-guessed any big decision that she wanted to make. Being in that back-and-forth place put her in a spin, and it was mentally exhausting to be indecisive about everything.
As she learned more about what decisions are, she realized that she needed to share her message with people, giving them a different perspective about decisions and taking the angst and agony out of making decisions with just a tiny tweak in their viewpoint.
If you continue to postpone making decisions, the difficult ones will get even harder and the opportunities will disappear. Whenever Allyson had a decision to make about joining a program, learning a new skill, or anything else, she would remain in the indecision phase until the opportunity passed, and she would feel relief that she didn’t move forward with it.
Later on, she would realize that she had missed an opportunity to change the entire trajectory of her life, and here she was, relieved that she had let an opportunity pass her by because she was so hung up on making a wrong decision.
Hostile vs. Friendly Universe
The biggest thing Allyson learned about decisions is that they don’t always have to relate to doing something. Instead, decisions are most often about something. For years and years, Allyson chose to live in a hostile universe, so every decision she had to make was hampered by this fear of messing up.
Once she decided that she lived in a universe designed to support her, one that was friendly to her desires, it helped her get into the driver’s seat for the first time in her life. She then understood that everything would always work out and it would be okay.
John is the Amazon bestselling author of Winning the Battle for Sales: Lessons on Closing Every Deal from the World’s Greatest Military Victories and Social Upheaval: How to Win at Social Selling. A globally acknowledged Sales & Marketing thought leader, speaker, and strategist. He is CSMO at Pipeliner CRM. In his spare time, John is an avid Martial Artist.